No labels, no best one. Each begins with what that child is genuinely good at, then names the step they are ready to build next. Most mothers spot their own child straight away.
Full force when it is hers — gone the moment it is handed to her
Works hard on something they chose. The same task, assigned, gets nothing.
Real drive, entirely her own. Nobody has to manufacture it.
Goes very deep, and pays an unusually high price for being interrupted
Will do it — but his own way
Ideas arrive mid-task and have to be chased
Attention holds while someone is nearby — company, not supervision
Cannot concentrate across an unresolved gap with you
Rises to genuine ownership, deflates under supervised participation
Effort tracks stakes, not importance
This is your child now, at this age. They move between these as the missing step gets built.
The assessment names it from what you already notice — no test for your child to sit, nothing for them to fail.